Fiestas y Partidos de fútbol

This past weekend some co-workers from my internship took my friends and I to a soccer game in the city. This was my first ever professional soccer game, and it was a ton of fun. It was a huge stadium with lots of street vendors selling jerseys, food, souvenirs, beer, etc. The best part is that Puebla won 1-0!!! Just another example of some amazing Mexicans I have met here, and how they are so willing to go the extra mile especially for people not from their own country.

I logged onto Facebook tonight to of course creep on people and gain some access to the world outside of Mexico and noticed something. As I sorted through my event invitations I realized that at least three of them are for birthday parties in Mexico. About an hour before Face-booking I saw two Mexicans on campus who invited me to two different birthday parties. Of course these social events aren't your typical "piñata y pastel" events, but rather "big kid" fiestas...at the clubs and bars. Its funny because I seriously just feel like its ALWAYS someone's birthday in Mexico. When it is somebody's birthday they don't celebrate quietly...they go all out! O well, I officially enjoy celebrating birthday's!!

Vantines Day and Buses

So I made it through Valentines Day. I consider this a success for two reason: 1) My girlfriend is back in the U.S so it was a rough holiday to have to endure in Mexico, and 2) I witness and survived watching Mexican PDA at its maximum. On Monday you would have thought that it was Christmas time in Mexico or something. I woke up that morning and walked out of my Colegio and the entire lobby was filled with flowers, candy, balloons, and cards. I mean literally there were probably between 50 and 100 packages sitting there. All of my teachers were talking about Valentines Day and asking how it was going for us to far. Then on my way to my internship there were street vendors EVERYWHERE. They were set up along the sidewalks, roads, and some even were blocking major interstate exits in an attempt to get the business of poor Mexican men who forgot it was Valentines Day. PDA was at its maximum. Everybody seemed like there were holding hands, kissing, hugging, making out, or doing more. It was pretty interesting to experience that holiday. I never thought that I would ever say that Valentines Day is bigger in Mexico than in the U.S. BUT it is.

On Wednesday my friend Emily and I decided to test out the bus system as an alternative means of transportation to our internship. We had been taking the taxi, but it gets very expensive especially when the drivers prey on taking advantage of Americans. The UDLAP is located in Cholula, Puebla, but our internship is just outside of downtown Puebla, Puebla. We have pretty much figured out the bus system in Cholula. I'm able to get to church, Walmart, and the markets with no problems at all. I was a little more concerned trying to figure out the Puebla bus system because its so much larger.

In South Bend (city of just over 100,000 people) I never really used the bus system. If I needed to though it was very easy to understand. They had specific routes, pickup times, drop-off locations, and each bus was clearly marked as to which stops the it was heading to. In Puebla (a city of over 4.5 million people) the bus system is so much more confusing. There are so many corporate and independent bus systems that its very intimidating. None of the buses have a posted schedule although they seem to follow some sort of schedule in order to allow for busy transfers. The buses are marked with locations that they are heading in, but its such a large city that we weren't really sure if any of those stops were around where we needed to be.

Moral of the story: four buses, and about two hours worth of traveling/waiting for buses later we made it there and back via the public transportation system. Was it worth the savings of not taking a taxi? Hell yes! Buses might be confusing but they are so cheap (equivalent to less than $.50). Plus there is something exhilarating about not knowing if you are on the right bus, or if you will have to take another bus....its like riding on a roller coaster :)

Personal Responsibility

One of the toughest things for me while I have been in Mexico has been living and sharing a room with someone. Freshmen year, it seemed to be much easier to live and share a room with my roommate. Living independently sophomore year and first semester of junior year allowed me to have the independence and responsibility that comes with having your own space. Now in Mexico, I'm having to get used to living like I did freshmen year, and I will admit its difficult.

I like to clean my own space, with my own cleaning supplies. I like to exercise being a 21 year old college student, and take responsibility for my own belongings. You might be wondering what story is behind this post? This Saturday I was rudely awoken at 8am to maintenance people prying into my room. They asked me to empty my fridge out so that they could do the "monthly cleaning." Why a monthly cleaning? More importantly why do we as college students need to have people come into our room EVERY morning and pick up all our trash, wash our dishes, clean our toilets and showers, sweep and mop our floors, clean our appliances, and dust our electronics? I just feel like I'm in college now, and so are the rest of the people I'm living with...I don't need someone to come in and clean my stuff. I can handle it all on my own.

Most people might really enjoy having people clean their room and living spaces but not me. I'm proud of myself for that. I feel like its a sign of maturity and responsibility.

PDA/Forgetfulness

Two topics to discuss today:

1) PDA

2) Forgetfulness

So I noticed today as I received an email telling me that I need to pay my car insurance that I do in fact own a  car. In what I refer to as my "past life" I purchased a car, and continue to pay for it while I'm in Mexico. This is just one of many things that I have forgotten about. I find many things in Mexico reminding me of things back home that I have forgotten about. I always think of my family, friends, girlfriend and other important people in my life, but since I have been here small aspects of my life have begun to be forgotten. Its a strange thing. I'm not sure if it comes with aging, or the change of environment, or a combination of both. Its just strange and a little scary to think that I can't remember certain English words at some points, and therefore when I speak I sound like a stupid person. Its funny because I was joking with Paige and Emily the other day that my Spanish isn't perfect yet, but as my Spanish becomes more perfected, my English gets worse. O well, I guess my brain can only truly handle one language!

Secondly, as Valentines Day approaches I can't help but to laugh. This day reminds me of a topic I have been wanting to blog about for a while: PDA in Mexico. There are three words to describe this topic: out of control (in Spanish fuera de control). Honestly, I can't walk around campus, or down the street 50 feet without having to endure watching PDA. The PDA here is different than in the U.S. In the U.S. couples will kiss, hug, or maybe make-out in public. In Mexico, they do the preceding with motions. At some points I just want to go up to some people and tell them that they might as well just not be wearing clothes at all! Out. of. control. 

Viajes, internados, y más!

So this is the first time that I have posted in a couple weeks, but in my defense I have been pretty busy! Since I last posted I have traveled to Pachuca, Real del Monte, Monte Albán, and Oaxaca City, Mexico. The past two weekends have been spent sleeping in hotels/hostels and carrying around a heavy backpack while sightseeing. I REALLY enjoying traveling, but I'm looking forward to spending a full weekend in the Cholula/Puebla area.

A week and a half ago I spent the entire week locked up in my suite sick. I had a nasty cold that developed into a sinus infection. That was not fun at all to say the least. I was really proud of myself throughout my period of sickness. I was able to go to the health clinic, tell the doctors and nurses exactly what was wrong with me, explain my health history, and go to pick up my prescriptions. I think for me that was a really important turning point to my time in Mexico. At that moment I was extremely independent, and realized that I know more Spanish than I think I know! It definitely gave me lots of confidence to tackle anything that comes my way the rest of the semester. Today I feel much much better.

I have certainly learned a lot from my travels so far. I always thought that motion sickness was something that people made up...NOT TRUE! I have driven long distances, and traveled by plane numerous times and never had motion sickness. Last weekend as I was traveling to Oaxaca City I got a nasty nasty case. Oaxaca is located about 4.5 hours southwest of Puebla in the Sierre Madre mountains. Needless to say the bus ride up to Oaxaca was filled with turns and hills for at least 2.5 hours straight. The ride back to Puebla was much more pleasant...after taking three Dramamine and sleeping nearly the entire way back :)

Recently, I was hired as an intern for VisionIT (www.visionit.com). They are a global consulting and staffing firm with many offices in the United States, Mexico, and India. The company works with numerous businesses most of which are Fortune 500 companies providing consulting and matching potential candidates for IT positions. They have an office locally here in Puebla. I wasn't expecting to have an internship while I was here in Mexico, but when the opportunity presented itself I knew I couldn't turn it down. I always felt like there was a purpose for me coming to Mexico, and that it would somehow advance my career, but never knew how. I'm really happy to be interning now because I know that this amazing experience will help open up doors to future jobs.

Its weird because I don't feel like I have been in Mexico for that long. I feel like I adjust more and more everyday. Today I definitely feel much more like a citizen or normal person than I ever did when I first got here. That is good. At the same time it all is so surreal to me sometimes. I find myself sometimes just dazing off when walking or when someone is talking to me, and then I'm brought back to reality. Sometimes I wake up and forget where I'm at which is really funny. I never understood how many people I know end up staying here longer than they planned, but now I realize why. Coming from uptight, time crazy America one can't help but to fall in the love with the very laid back, nonchalant, Mexican life. Plus, the culture and people are just amazing here and make you feel  loved and welcome.

-Chrís

Ruins at Monte Albán

Me in Oaxaca

Santo Domingo church in Oaxaca

Oaxaca

More ruins

Even more ruins 

Fountain in Real del Monte...drunk man helping himself to the fountain water in background

Some of the Valpo crew!

Me in Pachuca